When a man is falling in love with a woman, there are
many small or less obvious things about her and her
personality that will bring a smile not only to his face,
but also to his heart.
What are some things the man in your life probably
loves about you, but may not have told you?
1. He loves the way he smiles when he thinks about
you.
It doesn’t matter if he’s stressed out at work, stuck in
traffic, or just bored scrolling through Facebook. If a
man is lucky, he will have a woman come into his life
who can make him smile without even being in the
same zip code.
Just the thought of her or hearing her name will light
him up like fireworks on the 4th of July. What’s not to
love about that?
2. He loves when he makes you smile.
Have you ever noticed a guy who seemed to pick up
momentum when he’s being funny? Even sorta-semi-
funny, but not really, but damn he was trying?
A man loves to see the woman in his life smiling,
laughing, and having a good time. And even more, he
loves to be the source of that smile, even if it means
making dumb jokes for her to laugh at.
3. He loves being physically close to you.
Whether the two of you are cuddled up on the couch or
standing next to each other waiting for your cab, a man
loves being close to the woman in his life. It’s a great
way to feel connected with someone — physically and
emotionally.
It’s hard to beat the feeling of the woman you care
about laying on your chest or resting her head on your
shoulder. Don’t ask me why, it’s just science.
4. He loves when you play with his hair while he’s
driving.
I wish I could give you a reason for this, but all I can
say is that it’s the best thing ever.
5. He loves the way you smile after he kisses you.
You know that euphoric rush that comes over you when
you kiss the right person? That feeling of endorphins
and emotions that seems to take you over? That spark
you feel when you kiss him or her?
Sometimes, there’s no other reaction to that feeling
than to just … smile.
6. He loves when he catches you looking at him.
Men, like anyone else, crave the feeling of being
wanted. Many times, we’re the pursuers in a
relationship and we feel as though we’re consistently
trying to prove ourselves in order to get attention, a
first date, a second date. You get the idea.
When we’re with a woman who we feel really wants to
be with us — who gives us the same affection and
effort we give her, who we feel might just fall in love
with us — there’s no better feeling in the world.
7. He loves when you do that funny little thing you
probably don’t even know you do.
Maybe you crinkle your nose when you laugh, or maybe
you hit him on the shoulder when you’re (a little) mad.
Maybe you play with your hair when you get a little
nervous.
Whatever it is, you may just do it naturally, but he
notices. He notices because that’s one of the many
little things separating you from any other woman he’s
ever met. And he loves it.
8. He loves how natural things feel with you.
I was going to call this point “he loves how he doesn’t
have to try” to convey the idea that things should come
easily, but obviously, every man (and woman) has to
put in consistent effort and try to make a relationship
work.
But two people can just be completely comfortable
together and their relationship will feel natural. They’ll
be content, but not in a complacent or bored way.
They’ll be content in a deep sigh, and look into each
other’s eyes and think, “So, this is how it’s supposed to
be …”
9. He loves going to you for advice.
When you really respect someone for who they are and
the things they think, you value their opinion in ways
that trump the thoughts of others.
You want to get their advice. You want to hear what
they think about your latest conundrum. You want to
get their input and perspective. If the man in your life
not only asks for your opinion, but really takes it to
heart and factors it into his decisions, take it as a great
sign.
11. He loves looking into your eyes.
Looking into another person’s eyes can be a little
awkward. You’re not really sure where to look, which
eye to look at, or maybe you should just look at the
bridge of their nose.
But not with you. The awkwardness dissipates and is
replaced by excitement.
It’s replaced by hope. It’s replaced by love — a love
that can only grow between two people who open the
windows to their souls and allow one to reach through
embrace the other. A calm serenity that makes you
want to hold your gaze, not turn away.
When a woman is right for a man — and I mean, when
she is really right for him — there will never be a list
long enough to explain all the things he loves about
her.
There will never be a word strong enough to describe
how he feels. There will never be a way for him to
communicate how deeply he cares for her.
All he will be able to do when she asks him, “What’s
that look for?” is smile, shake his head, and say, “Oh,
nothing …” Because sometimes, that’s all he can
muster.
But believe me, it’s just his way of telling you that no
words will ever suffice — only love will.
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