We guys have been made to think that we must always do
anything possible to impress the female folk. I’m not against
a guy loving her babe, I’m against a guy doing silly things in
order to impress a lady.
The truth is that most times, these actions come back to
haunt us while, we get to regret at the end.
1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are guilty of this
especially when trying to woo a lady or when taking her to
bed. This is wrong in so many ways: it will damage your
health, its a temporary measure, you most times end up
misbehaving and its not a guarantee that you’ll succeed in
wooing or performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will know
that you took something and that you lack confidence and
esteem. Be yourself.
2. Spending above your means: whether its buying things you
don’t really need in order to look rich and fly, or spoiling the
lady with things you normally should not be buying. Its
wrong. I see a lot of guys do this and I keep wondering to
what purpose? The worst is many of them come back to
their senses when its already too late!
3. Lying: I’m not talking about the small lies guys normally
tell, I’m talking about bragging to a lady about what you’re
not. Why tell a lady your father is Dangote’s brother, or
you’re a Chelsea player, or you work in Shell. This will make
her have high expectation from you which you would be
trying to live up to.
4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy that is also
coming after her. Its wrong for a guy to maltreat his fellow in
any way because of a lady. Whether its badmouthing, fighting
or quarelling with him, its not worth it.
5. Giving your values and beliefs: Maybe you’re a committed
Christian or Muslim, you start backsliding or become
uncommitted because she told you to. You start to abandon
your loved ones and family, your studies begin to nosedive
and even your job sef, you become unserious. Its a very silly
thing to do because when the chips are down, those are the
only things that will get you going- God, your family and
loved ones and your job which will put food on your table.
6. Pretending to be who you’re not: there’s no need to
pretend to be a bad guy if you’re not. There are still ladies
who values good guys. U don’t need to force yourself to
seem confident if you’re a shy guy. People will know you’re
just acting it up.
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