Women should never be scared of revealing their deepest
and darkest desires
to their significant others..
Understanding and trusting each other is one of the best way
to spice up
sexual life, so how can couples achieve that?
By communicating not just talking, women should never be
scared of
revealing their deepest and darkest desires to their
significant others, in that
same way, you’ll find out his secret fantasies too.
This may not apply to all couples but at least starting
somewhere would help
you have that fulfilling relationship you often fantasize.
Selivanova Alena of HerBeauty blog lists of few of those
bedroom tips
women desire in the bedroom:
1. Openness: Every woman wants to reveal her partner her
deepest naughty
fantasies, but not every woman can entrust her secret
dreams. That’s why
a man must be totally open in bed. The more open a guy is
about his
intimate desires, the more open a woman will be with hers.
2. Listening: To be heard is one of those things women
always want to get
from guys, even under the sheets. We know exactly what we
love doing in
bed. Guys should just listen to us and respond to our
guidance on how to
satisfy us best. Of course, their efforts will be rewarded.
3. Passion: There is no doubt women dream about all sorts
of romance,
candles, flowers, gentle words etc. But men should not forget
about
passion as well, raw passion. Sometimes the best way to
satisfy a woman
is to just take her, kiss her hard, and make no apologies for
how
desperately he needs all of you.
4. Aggressiveness: We, women, are quite enthusiastic about
aggressive sex,
aren’t we? Even a little roughing under the sheets can do
wonders for our
sexual life. We do not want our men to be aggressive on
every occasion,
but sometimes guys must definitely turn into real aggressors
and feel free
to venture into this darker world of intimate desires.
5. Focus on entire body: Unfortunately men often make this
mistake. They
pay attention to a few places on a woman’s body when trying
to bring her
pleasure. But we don’t actually want our partner to focus
only on these
“obvious” intimate spots. We want guys to pay attention to
our entire body
rather than the sum of its parts.
6. Longer oral sex: It’s just incredible how many men don’t
give their women
oral sex that often, or even don’t do it at all. They actually
think it’s OK.
But it’s definitely not! Guys expect oral sex for themselves,
but do not
always return the sentiment to girls. It’s a huge mistake.
Agree, girls? We
want men to experiment a little bit down there and figure out
what we like
best.
7. Domination: We, women, want it all, to dominate and to be
dominated. We
want men to take charge in bed as well as we want to take
charge by
ourselves. Sometimes to control everything what’s going on
between the
sheets brings us real pleasure, “the cowgirl” position works
the best in this
case. The must-remember tip here is to switch these roles
from time to
time.
8. Dirty talk: Women love dirty talk, but men often miss
giving it to us. Every
girl secretly wants her partner to engage her naughty side
and tell her
exactly what he is thinking about, not just flowery sweet
nothing. Our
halves must tell us about their dirtiest sexual desires and
then fulfill them
in the bedroom!
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